It’s performance conversation time!
Getting the right mind-set for performance conversations is important. Now that performance conversation season is upon many of us. For some, you may be coaching managers to have good conversations. Others might dread the amount of preparation and time that the conversations take up. One of the key things to think about around performance conversations is getting our mindset right. The right mindset makes a difference to whether those performance conversations** have a motivating or completely de-motivating impact on our team.
Moving away from ‘old style’ performance conversations
Companies are moving away from ‘old style’ performance conversations to ‘coaching-based’ performance conversations. To make this shift we need to:
- Move away from annual or infrequent performance conversations. And moving towards more frequent coaching conversations, where the focus is on: what is we are trying to achieve? What is the progress? What assistance do you need to achieve your goals?
- Shift from the manager writing the plan and towards the staff member being responsible and accountable for their own plan.
- Change from performance plans being a response to poor performance and a remedial activity; and towards those plans being an every-day way of tracking progress, success and opportunities for improvement.
But for now, consider two alternative starts to a performance conversation:
- We need to discuss your under performance.
- I want to talk about how we can work together to shift your performance…from where it is now, to where we need it to be.
The first statement is likely to cause the person you are speaking to, to take a sharp breath in, even hold their breath. They may be trying to listen to you. But the average person is going to start to go into ‘fight, flight or freeze’ mode. Depending the tone of the conversation, they may feel the need to start to justify themselves, make excuses or even move the blame to others. The performance conversation sets off on the wrong path and is likely to continue down that path.
In contrast, the second statement is a lot wordier. You can fix it to make it more comfortable. It’s still a difficult performance conversation. But the key with this statement is that it is 100% less likely to evoke defensiveness from a team member. It is about working together. To move from where the person is now, to where they need to be.
How to make performance conversations easier
Performance conversations become easier over time if managers foster a culture of openness, trust and giving and receiving feedback. A focus on continuous improvement, rather than once-off conversations, means that manager can address changes or shifts that are required in the moment and ensure a spirit of working together to achieve the team and organisational objectives.
**Please note, any performance conversations need to be conducted in line with your organisation’s policies and procedures. This article should be considered as general commentary, rather than a fixed guideline or something that occurs outside of formal processes and procedures.