This simple tool helps us look at everything we are juggling. Firstly, write down all the pressures or major things you are juggling. Then, for each of these major items, have a think about things that we need to stop doing or do less of. Quite often there will be things that we can let go of. Alternatively release some pressure around for now. Finally, think about what you can start or do more of, without adding to your list. From here, you might be able to make some commitments.
For example, if I stop logging onto emails late at night. I can start going to bed a little earlier. Or start doing some mindfulness practice or reading my book to ease into sleep. We don’t want to be stressing and putting ourselves under pressure to read at night time. Rather we are making a commitment to stop the emails to give us that precious time.
Perhaps you are juggling keeping the house clean. Perhaps you can stop putting yourself under so much pressure to have a perfect house. Furthermore, make a commitment to start asking for help, rather than doing it all yourself.